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October 15, 2015

Making Time for My Friendships

St. Patrick's Day House Party

This post is coming to you from 30,000 feet, flying somewhere over Oklahoma on my way home. I mention this context because I haven’t been home in two weeks, and I’m so eager to see my friends and make the most of my time. I had forgotten just how stressful it is on me and my relationships when I’m away from home most of the week, and that was exacerbated when I didn’t go home last weekend at all. (Not that I would trade my weekend in Sonoma for anything!) This morning, I read a really interesting article about how Having Too Many Friends …

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October 5, 2015

First Domino to Set Everything in Motion

Foggy_Chatauqua_Road

The Discover program that I was orchestrating in LA last week ends with a really cool closing ceremony called “Momentum.” In it, we discuss the impact of selecting a first domino that will help you take that initial step toward whatever goal you are trying to implement. A first domino can, and should, be very small. For my goal of running a marathon in all 50 states, the first domino wasn’t even running my first marathon; it was driving my car around the neighborhood to find out from the odometer exactly how far one mile was. (I also timed my runs …

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September 29, 2015

Crafting my Victorious Entrance

Laura_Joking_Onstage

This week, I’m back at Terranea to deliver another week of my firm’s Discover program. I was really nervous for this session – much more than my first one as orchestrator, a few weeks ago. A few days after my last session, I got videos of my performance – and I was really unhappy with how I did. I was looking down at my notes a lot, and in the post-session feedback, some of the senior associates commented that it made me seem scripted rather than authentic. Although I still got great “scores” (my NPS was 78; that is, 82% said …

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September 18, 2015

Date Night, Here I Come!

Adam_Laura_Birthday_Hike

This week, I read an article by Eric Barker on shortcuts to bonding deeply with a romantic partner. So as I do with a lot of interesting things I read, I sent it on to Adam. And then we both had fun realizing that we do a lot of these things already. But one of the things on the list that we both thought was a great idea was the idea of pretending that we’re on a first date again. No, not in the weird roleplaying way that Claire and Phil do on Modern Family (honestly, whenever they pretend to …

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September 9, 2015

Update: My Energy Audit

Discover_Orchestration_Day_1

I am having an amazing time at Terranea Resort, orchestrating my firm’s “Senior Associate Leadership Development Experience” (which we shorten to be called “Discover”). Yesterday was a really big day for me as orchestrator, as I had about half an hour of time on stage to tell the seniors my “who am I” story. Of course, it wasn’t quite as perfect as I would have liked it to be, but overall I was pretty happy with how it went! One of my biggest worries with orchestrating this program is that I’m going to come off as manufactured or fake in …

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